What I Love About My House Church (September 2011 Edition)

Our House Church

Our House Church at Sean's Birthday Party. Circa August 2010.

Have you ever met the guy who no matter how good things get, he always thinks they can be better? You know the guy…he’s the one on your team at work who after the project has been finished, still thinks it could be just a little bit better.  Even if something’s perfect he can see the downside of the good thing.  He’s the guy who’s never satisfied.

Well, that guy is me. And because that guy is me, sometimes I have to work to maintain an attitude of thankfulness and appreciation.  This reality is especially important and necessary when it relates to my work with a group of people.  To aid myself in that important work I submit to you, my loyal readers and to the larger interwebs, the first ten things that I love about my house church:

  1. My house church is generous.  This is true on a corporate level as well as an individual level.  Corporately almost all of our money goes to someone besides us.  I’ve watched as those in our midst who steward our corporate finances have made tough, sacrificial choices about how our corporate money is spent.  I’ve watched individuals in our family dig deep in their pockets for the sake of the nations, the lost, and one another.  I think there is something in our sacrifice that is pleasing to God.
  2. My house church is discreet. This may strike you as odd, but I’ve been a part of other churches where it was okay to talk negatively about another brother or sister openly.  We’ve never made a rule about not exposing each other, but somehow we’ve become a people who don’t.  I had a mentor of mine who interacts with our church tell me the other day “Whenever someone from your house church talks about a problem they’re having, they are incredibly careful never to name the person they’re having a problem with.” I think our love for one another shows through in this.
  3. My house church hears the voice of Jesus. They really, really hear the voice of Jesus.  I mean, really!  I can’t tell you the number of times that someone has visited our church and has wound up weeping because Jesus is addressing the real issues of their heart through someone who is prophesying. Sometimes these people aren’t even believers! This is especially amazing to me because we didn’t have a ton of extremely prophetic people in our midst in the beginning. However that happened,  it’s been because of Jesus and it’s been an organic transformation.
  4. My house church loves the Presence of Jesus. I’ve been a part of a lot of churches who love Jesus but hate it when He does miracles a way they don’t expect.  My house church loves the presence of Jesus and isn’t offended when He does something that is outside of someone’s grid.  I’m absolutely blessed that my church loves Jesus no matter how He comes to us.
  5. My house church isn’t bitter. I’ve met lots of people who are bitter at the institutional church.  But the people who are part of our house church love the rest of the body. They attend events with other believers from other churches.  They learn from the institutional church, they serve it, and they do it with a heart of gladness.  And none of it (at least that I know of) is out of a desire to “convert” people to our house church.  This may not seem like a big deal, but to do something different without becoming bitter is incredibly difficult in our age.
  6. My house church knows one another.  Not much more needs to be said on this topic.  We know each other. We know each other’s strengths and we know each other’s weaknesses. I’ve been in larger churches and house churches where people didn’t know each other, but somehow we’ve come to know each other and not forsake each other at the same time.  This fact, as humble as it is, is still amazing to me.
  7. My house church is full of brothers who tell me truth about me. There is an incredible lack of truth-telling in the body of Christ currently, mostly because we lack courage and conviction.  But because my house church knows me (see #6) and because they love me, the guys in my church have consistently and lovingly confronted me about issues in my own heart.  They’re not always right about a topic when they confront me (but more often they are), but every time they tell me the truth, I know they love me and are sent by a Father who loves His children (Hebrews 12:5-11).
  8. My house church wrestles with difficult truths and their practical applications. There have been multiple times where I’ve seen our church wrestle with a difficult or controversial concept.  Some of the concepts have been truth and some have been outright heresy.  But in both cases, my spiritual family has dug into the Bible and wrestled with both the truth itself and the practical outworkings of believing the teaching in question.  In every situation this has benefited and matured our church.
  9. My house church legitimately supports the life movement. But they do it in a way that is more than just lip service or a political agenda.  They pray for the lives of unborn children.  They reach into their pockets (see #1) and provide for children that are unwanted.  One couple in our church is on the verge of our church’s first adoption and a second family in our church just got approved as a foster care couple.  The folks in my house church are laying down their lives for the sake of children no one else wants and I believe they touch a part of God’s heart every time they do.
  10. My house church is serious about the Great Commission happening in the nations. Since the beginning we’ve always talked about how the Gospel has to go to the nations.  Several years later six of us have gone as part of our church. That’s about half of our spiritual family.  Other’s have given shamelessly to our cause (see #1), prayed for us while we were away, and listened to our stories when we returned. I would not be surprised if ten years down the road 75% of the people who are part of church currently have been to another nation and several of them are living in Africa, working to bring the Gospel to places it’s never been.

So, that’s my house church.  I love them all as people, but these are some things I can say the Lord has done in us.  Now, what about your house church?  What are some of the things the Lord has done in your midst?

Photo Credit: Cedar Rapids House Church Network by Brandi Sawyer and Bryan Hamilton


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About traviskolder

Travis Kolder is a follower of Jesus, a husband, a father of five, an organic church planter, and a writer. He lives in Cedar Rapids, Iowa, where he serves as part of the Cedar Rapids House Church Network.

3 responses to “What I Love About My House Church (September 2011 Edition)”

  1. oikoskrk says :

    Good Blog! We have been relational housechurching for over 30 years and we help others to start.
    I blog about our journey in a Star Trek themed blog @ http://notesfromthebridge.wordpress.com
    I am Christoper “Captain ” Kirk after all. LOve, Chris

    • traviskolder says :

      Greetings Captain!

      Always good to hear from another fellow traveler. I love the Star Trek theme to your blog, I definitely will have to pass it along to a friend who **loves** Star Trek and has been a part of our house church. Feel free to stick around and way in on the discussion here. We could sure learn from people with your experience.

  2. riverflowsdown says :

    I have had the pleasure of watching you all grow in Love for Jesus and one another and it is a treasure. God is truly building His House in Iowa, Gota love it!

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