I wanted to take a minute and update you on some events that have transpired over the last week. On Wednesday night around our dinner table our house church talked about a project in Uganda that we are partnering with House of Friends in order to spur church planting in Africa. Part of that plan involved a missionary family named the Shehee’s who live in Uganda and we know of through some mutual friends.
Thursday morning, we received a tragic email alerting us that the Shehee’s were in a car accident in which the father and mother were injured and their one-month old child was killed. Anyone who has ever lost a child or been on the mission field can know how devastating one of these things is, but to have both happen simultaneously is tragic.
That said, I wanted to share their story as far and wide as possible. Please read the letter Will Shehee wrote yesterday and at least pray for them, and if you can, give generously to help in their hour of need.
Dear Brothers and Sisters,
On Jan 29th, late at night, we were driving back from Kampala on a two lane highway. As I was going down a hill, a car passed going the other direction. Their lights flooded my vision for a few seconds, and then there was a semi-truck parked in my lane with no break lights or reflectors. I hit the back of it going 50 mph. Our newborn baby, Lydia Rose, suffered a serious head wound and died.
Etta’s side of the vehicle was completely smashed in. Her legs were pinned. It took over 20 minutes to pull her out. Four bones were severely broken, including her femur, tibia, knee cap, and collar bone. My ulna was also broken.
Obviously, this is the hardest thing we have ever had to walk through, but the grace of God has carried us and given us strength. There are many sources through which that strength-ening has come, including many of you.
First, thank you so much for your prayers. 2 Cor. 1:10-11 “He who rescued us from so deadly a peril will continue to rescue us; on him we have set our hope that he will rescue us again, as you also join in helping us by your prayers, so that many will give thanks on our behalf for the blessing granted us through the prayers of many.” Prayer requests have been sent out from our friends here to their networks, who forwarded it to all their prayer networks. People are literally praying for us from all over the world. We are all so aware of the indescribable grace of God which has come to us through your prayers!
Secondly, God has surrounded us with an amazing community of friends and family. In-credibly, the accident happened in the middle of the three week visit of both mine and Etta’s mothers. God knew we would both need the comfort that only a mother’s love can give. Our team in Tororo has rallied around us. From the time they brought us from the accident to the hospital, they haven’t left our side. They have been a lifeline of strength and comfort.
There are also three truths from the Word of God that always bring peace and even joy to our hearts in the midst of the storm.
First, God is sovereign over life and death. Ecclesiastes 3:1-2 says “For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven: a time to be born, and a time to die”. Acts 1:7 says that those times and seasons are fixed by God’s authority. When we are tempted to think about all the things we should have done differently, and blame ourselves or the other drivers, we remember that God fixed this moment in His heart, and it wasn’t because of some so-called “accident” or mistake. That revelation of the knowledge of God has saved us from tail spinning into the dark place of regret and blame, and given His perfect peace.
The second truth which has brought grace (divine strengthening) to us is the reality of heaven. Heaven has never been so real to us as it is now. God saved our sweet innocent girl from a life of suffering. Her spirit is in paradise forever. God showed me a picture of her spirit in the bosom of the Father, He was incubating her with the greatest love she could ever receive. When we feel sorrow over her physical death, we think about where she is right now and feel surges of joy. What a beautiful childhood she will have!
And the third truth is the corresponding hope that we feel, that we will one day be to-gether. Christian hope is not merely “thinking of”, but the present “certainty of” a future reality. That life is but a vapor, and in just a minute we’ll meet Her at the gates of the heavenly city, never to be separated again.
God did not abandon us or forsake us in our greatest time of need. So many miracles have happened. Right after the accident so many people ran up to help. Etta’s legs were com-pletely pinned between the seat and the front of the car. After they finally busted the door open, they attached ropes to two semi’s in front and behind and pushed the front of the van off of her legs. Meanwhile a pastor from Tororo had been traveling behind us and witnessed the accident. It was as if he appeared out of nowhere to help us. My phone was destroyed so I had no way of calling an ambulance. The pastor knew Jesse Digges (my ministry partner) and called him! Jes-se was there with the van by the time they got Etta out.
Most hospitals in Uganda don’t have “emergency” in their vocabulary. We kept pressing them to do an x-ray, etc, and after 7 hours of only basic first aid at two different hospitals, God sent us a true hero to advocate. Jill Robinson was an ER nurse in America for 18 years before becoming a missionary to Uganda. She found out we were in her city, Mbale, from a friend of mine. She and her husband rushed out to find us as soon as she found out. She knew exactly what needed to be done, and the culturally sensitive way to get them to do it. She is also good friends with an American PHD physical therapist who can help us with recovery, and who also knew the best orthopedic surgeon in Uganda, just 2 hours away! They transferred us, and we are finally getting professional care from an amazing team of Ugandan nurses. The doctor is a Ugandan MD who since has taken excellent care of us completing both surgeries safely. Jill the American nurse hasn’t left our side and and was present during the surgeries, she stayed in a hotel next to the hospital. We had never met her before. That is Christian love!
Please continue to pray for us. We have a long road of physical therapy. And even more, the grief of losing our little Rose after having her only a month. Thanks for all of you who have been praying and who have offered to stand with us financially (we don’t have health insurance). A friend of ours is setting up a GIve Forward campaign.
We echo the words of our Father in the faith, Job, when he lost his children: “Naked I came from my mother’s womb, and naked shall I return. The LORD gave, and the LORD has taken away; blessed be the name of the LORD.'” Job 1:21
A couple of months back I was having a conversation on twitter with ApostleFarm about how apostles travel great distances to invest in the next generation of Kingdom leaders. Having seen some of that in Africa, I shared a little bit about the experience, but intended to write a blog post to share more in detail. After thinking about the topic some I decided that a video blog might be a better venue for sharing what I’ve learned.
So with no further ado, here is my video blog about apostolic travel for Kingdom advancement. Make sure to stick around for the last couple of minutes where I discuss what I believe is one secret that I think gets missed by most western apostolic workers.
Thanks for watching the video blog. Have you ever seen apostolic travel in action either here or abroad? What can you learn from the examples you’ve seen? Let me know in the comment section.
Some things just get better with age. “The Wayback Machine” posts occur at the end of every month and reference the best posts of that month in years past. My hope is to provide a good jumping on point for readers whTho have never been to Pursuing Glory.
Weird, huh? I’m in Africa while you’re reading this and I was planning a trip to Africa (this time Ethiopia) two years ago. This was the start of an amazing journey with lots of new friends and spiritual giants. My time in Ethiopia changed my world.
The church of Jesus Christ has a particular obligation to care for widows. It should be difficult to separate the true church with the care of widows, but sadly, it’s not. This is one of my first “Notes from the Margin” posts where I’m wrestling through 1 Timothy and Paul’s prescription for the care of widows.
This post is a short meditation on the nature of movements. This thought came because of the love the people in my sphere had shown me. My hope is we all have a chance to be a part of something like this.
This post is me wrestling with my blogging style. Should I be a blogger who writes about whatever is in my mind at the time? Or should I be a strategic blogger, waiting for content that is relevant and in the Lord’s timing? I’m still wrestling with this idea to some degree. After the death of Osama Bin Laden, this post seems a little dated and a little timeless all at the same time.
It seems like no matter how many things change, they still stay the same. In 2007 I was planning my first trip to Uganda. By the time you’ll read this, I will be there again.
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Every week here at Pursuing Glory I try to bring together the best posts I’ve found that will equip the end-times church to operate in her God-ordained destiny. These are the best blogs, articles, books and other resources related to our purpose here at this site. Feel free to visit, comment, and make use of the resources found at each site.
This week’s posts mostly focus on house churches (organic/simple churches). They represent a wide assortment of people who have different perspectives, but all of them have been practicing simple, reproducible, Christ-centered meetings for years. They’ve been my food for thought as I’ve been preparing to write a “Basic Introduction” post on house churches. I hope you enjoy!
The prevailing thought is that simple, organic churches tend not to be very engaged in missions, especially globally. I’ve found this incredibly inaccurate in our own experience, though I think it greatly depends on who makes up each church. (Posted at The Assembling of the Church)
Frank at Reimagining Church shares an excerpt from his book, From Eternity to Here, where he looks at the reality of Christ’s Lordship in the Church as a foundation for understanding how the Church is built. This is must reading for every church planter.
Maurice Smith at Parousia Network Cyber Cafe shares his perspective of where God is leading those in the organic house church movement. This is long post, but there are some keen insights about what the future may look like.
Guy Muse at The M Blog shares a true story about a church planter from Ecuador, that while true, is also a parable for those of us in the organic house church movement.
I’ve been busy for the last few days so I haven’t been able to write as much as I would like. However I did want to catch you all up on an event that we’re going to be attending in the Kansas City, Missouri area this weekend. House of Friends, the missions organization I run with, is hosting a night of ministry with Russ and Kim Kline. Russ and Kim are a prophetic couple that have heavily influenced my friend John Gross in the things of the Spirit, who is no slouch in that department himself. All of that to say it should be a good event in and of itself.
On top of that, I just found out that my wife will actually be leading worship for the event. I have to say I’m very excited about this. I’m not going to gush and say that Christy should have some national platform leading worship or anything, but I do believe that because we meet in a house church and she normally leads worship for 10 people, she doesn’t get the credit for being the really stellar worship leader that she is. In fact, there are many times I would prefer my wife leading worship over some of the people who lead worship for hundreds of others on a regular basis. (Ahhh…the secret place…isn’t it wonderful?)
Anyways, pray for her that this goes well. Pray that God would give House of Friends direction as we gather, report, and strategize. And if you’re in the Kansas City or Concordia area, check out this event. More information is on the flier below.
If you haven’t caught the twittering going on lately, I’ve been back from Ethiopia now for about one week. There’s been a lot of catching up and transitioning going on, so I’ve been pretty silent here.
Ethiopia was amazing. I will try and post some stories and photos soon, but I want to tell the stories in a way that’s fair for those who have been supporting me in prayer and through finances first. Fairly shortly I will be writing an article for the House of Friends July (or August) newsletter, so I may post that here as well. Thank you to everyone who encouraged, prayed, and gave to make this last trip possible. It was definitely not in vain.
In the Lord, I need to get back into the secret place in a major way. I’m realizing that I rely on the relationships around me as a primary conduit for revelation, insight, and motivation. And while I wholeheartedly believe that the Lord uses relationships for that very purpose I’m realizing I have grown lazy in actually hearing from Him on things that are important. I’ll probably have to confess that to my group of guys in the morning.
Lastly, I’m going to try and post here more in the future. I won’t say how often my goal is lest I fail to make it and look like a fool, but I will tell you I want to post here more than I am. It’s good to be back!
It’s been a while since I’ve posted about my latest adventures and I’ve barely written about the thing that has been keeping me the most busy. I’ve been contemplating for almost a year now traveling with my friend John Gross to Ethiopia to begin the ground work for some strategic missions work there. Our specific goal is to build relationships with believers in Ethiopia and lay the groundwork for an orphanage there. Up until about two months ago it didn’t even seem like I would be able to go on the trip, so talking about it seemed premature. When everything did come together it became obvious that we had to move quickly to get everything done.
So now, in less than three weeks, a team of four of us from our house church along with John, Gizaw, and three others from Kansas City will be venturing to Ethiopia to see what the Lord would do when we show up. We would very much appreciate any prayer support we could get. Also, if you’re heart is moved to give towards the cause, we would love that as well. You can check out more details here if you’d like more information.
Because the time is short, if you decide to pray or give, leave a message in the comment section so I can connect with you somehow. Prayer is especially needed and we are quickly working on an effective way to organize our prayer support. Thanks to all of you who have become an amazing form of support to Christy and I.
We love you.